Thursday, October 20, 2011

Wear Sunscreen

I did not write this, but I've always enjoyed reading this essay. The commencement speaker at my graduation read it. It was written by Mary Schmich. Hope you enjoy!


Wear sunscreen.

If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice now.

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Oh, never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded. But trust me, in 20 years, you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked. You are not as fat as you imagine.

Don't worry about the future. Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.

Do one thing every day that scares you.

Sing.

Don't be reckless with other people's hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.

Floss.

Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself.

Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.

Keep your old love letters. Throw away your old bank statements.

Stretch.

Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives. Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't.

Get plenty of calcium. Be kind to your knees. You'll miss them when they're gone.

Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either. Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else's.

Enjoy your body. Use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or of what other people think of it. It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.

Dance, even if you have nowhere to do it but your living room.

Read the directions, even if you don't follow them.
Do not read beauty magazines. They will only make you feel ugly.

Get to know your parents. You never know when they'll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings. They're your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.

Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.
Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard. Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft. 

Travel.

Accept certain inalienable truths: Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old. And when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders.

Respect your elders.

Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either one might run out.

Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you're 40 it will look 85.

Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth.

But trust me on the sunscreen.

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

A Hug or a Hamburger

One of my favorite TV shows is “The Closer” on TNT. It follows the life of a female detective who is from Atlanta, Georgia but lives and works in Los Angeles, California. On one of the episodes that I recently watched, the detective said, “It never hurts to start with being nice.” I read a story awhile back that I’d like to share.
Scott was walking home one day when a boy ahead of him tripped and dropped all of the books he was carrying, along with two sweaters, a baseball bat, and a glove. Scott knelt down and helped the boy pick up the scattered articles. They were going the same way, so he helped carry part of the load. As they walked, Scott discovered the boy’s name was Will, that he loved video games, baseball, and history; and, that he was having lots of trouble with his other subjects and that he had just broken up with his girlfriend. They went to Will’s home and watched some television, laughing and sharing small talk. Then, Scott went home.
They continued to see each other around school, had lunch together once or twice, then both graduated from middle school. They ended up in the same high school, and had some interaction over the years. Then, finally, they were seniors. Will asked Scott if they could talk. Will reminded him of the day years ago when they had first met. “Did you ever wonder why I was carrying so much stuff home that day?” asked Will, “I cleaned out my locker because I didn’t want to leave a mess for anyone else. I was depressed, and I was going home to commit suicide. But after we spent some time together talking and laughing, I realized that if I had killed myself, I would have missed that time and so many others that might follow. So you see, Scott, when you picked up those books that day, you did a lot more, you saved my life.
In Matthew 25:35-40, Christ said, “I was hungry, and you gave me something to eat. I was thirsty, and you gave me something to drink. I was a stranger, and you invited me in. I needed clothes, and you clothed me. I was sick, and you looked after me. I was in prison, and you came to visit me.” Then the righteous will answer Him, “Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you? Or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?” The King will reply, “I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.”
You never know when someone has been placed in your life as a test of your character. So, share a hug or a hamburger with someone; it could change their life.

How big is your tree?

Proverbs 11:30 NLT says, “The seeds of  good deeds become a tree of life; and those who win souls are wise.“ If this were the only standard for “wise,“ how much wisdom would you have? There are different ways to witness. The life that we choose to live has a large impact on those around us. Matthew 5 tells us, “You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead, they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in Heaven.“ 
There are many different types of witnessing: door-to-door, handouts, singing, street-corner preaching. But, I think that one of the most important tools for witnessing is our own lives, on a daily basis. I have often heard the saying, “My life may be the only Bible someone will ever read.” If that were the case, how many people around you would know Jesus? Like that city on a hill, sometimes (as Christians) other people are looking at our light when we don’t even know it. Be sure that when they look at you, they are able to see Christ through your actions.

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

SOLD!

During a church service a while back, Mom said something that really stuck out to me. She said that instead of testing to see what we can get by with, why not sell out completely to God? Not worrying about how we can get around a guideline, but living so that whatever it takes to be closer to the Lord, that is what we’re willing to do. I thought of a song by Watermark called, “My heart, Your home.” The lyrics say, “Come and make my heart Your home, Come and be everything I am and all I know, Search me through and through, Til my heart becomes a home for You…Let everything I do, Open up a door for You to come through, So that my heart will be, A place where you want to be.” I don’t know about you, but when I know that company is coming to my house, I try to make sure everything is clean and in order. How much more should we make sure our lives are in order when we want the King of Kings to take up residence in our hearts and lives? Put things that occupy space and time in the places where they belong so that we can allow Jesus to make our heart home to Him.

October Church News


October Church News

Monroe First Congregational Holiness Church
1113 South Broad Street
Monroe, Georgia 30655
Pastor Greg Baldwin
Sunday School 10:00, Sunday Worship Service 11:00 & 6:00,
Tuesday Worship Service 7:30
Follow us on facebook: www.facebook.com/monroechchurch
Welcome
Here at Monroe CH Church, we are a family of believers. We want to capture the hearts of every generation and join together in pressing “toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:14). Thank you for joining with us to magnify and worship the Lord today. If you don’t already have a home church, we would love to have you with us each week. Along with our mid-week service on Tuesdays, we also have small groups on Tuesdays. We are certain that we have something suited for you.
Weekly Sunday School Trivia Questions
October 2nd~ Who sharpened the tools for the Israelites when they had no blacksmiths?
October 9th~Whose name means “Because I asked him of the Lord?”
October 16th~How old was Noah when the Great Flood occurred?
October 23rd~ How many arrows Joash shoot into the ground at Elisha’s command?
Nursery Guidelines
The nursery is staffed by one adult and one young adult and will be
available during the sermon portion of the service.
Words for Life
“Don’t doubt in the darkness what you knew to be true in light.” I heard that on You Tube the other day. It really resonated with me. My car is red-always has been, always will be. At night, in darkness, my perception of its color may change; but, it is only my perception that changes-the color remains the same. I recently watched “Soul Surfer.” In it, they have a Bible study. During one of the lessons, the leader tells the class, “If you’re dealing with something that’s hard to handle or just plain doesn’t make sense, do whatever it takes to get some perspective. Talk to your parents, a friend…pray about it. From a different point of view, you’ll often discover that things aren’t quite as confusing as they seem.” No doubt God has made you a promise. At times, when it seems as if you’re going through a dark night, it may be hard to see that God is fulfilling His promise to you. But, remember, God’s promise has not changed. Psalm 34:5-6,8 NLT says, “Those who look to Him for help will be radiant with joy; no shadow of shame will darken their faces. In my desperation I prayed, and the Lord listened; He saved me from all my troubles. Taste and see that the Lord is good. Oh, the joys of those who take refuge in Him!” Don’t doubt what the Lord has promised you. He has a will and a purpose. Even if your circumstances have changed, God is still the same.
Prayer Requests
In your prayer time this week, please remember:
Dee Cordle, Melissa Christian, Tony Howard, Shane Charles, Brandon Keene and Jonathon Carter (deployed soldiers), Gary Butler, Bro Billy Autry, Sherman and Joy Baldwin, Robert and Glenna Deel, Gene McCullough, Eva and Delano Casper and Martha Brand, Lisa Perry, Jill Thornton & Scott Williams.
Announcements
§  October 6th~Brotherhood Meeting @ 7:30
§  October 9th-12th~Revival with Jonathan Church
§  October 17th~WM’s
§  October 21~Dinner & a movie. Dinner @ 6:00; Movie @ 7:30. Pastor’s Pals-Bro. Greg & Sis Tina will provide child care in the nursery during the movie. Menu & movie to be announced soon.
§  Nursing Home Ministry is the first Saturday of each month. Sister Judy Daniel directs this ministry & would appreciate your prayers & support
§  Christmas in Mexico~we will be sending Christmas poppers to the Monroe Church in Mexico again this Christmas. Please start bringing the following items: toilet paper rolls, bags of individually wrapped candy (no chocolate-it melts), small toys (balloons, crayons, small bouncy balls, etc.), and Christmas wrapping paper.
§  Remember to check the projection for additional announcements.

October Birthdays
Amanda Bryson~October 2nd
Johnnie Bryson~October 3rd
Delisa McDaniel~October 5th
Wesley Michael October 20th
Haley Lazenby October 28th

Saturday, September 24, 2011

Caribbean Cruise 2011

Carnival Elation has over 1,000 staterooms, and this past week, I was blessed to occupy one of them. Our cabin was E-171, an ocean view on the Empress deck. It was a wonderful place to be for the week. I think that prior to this cruise, we must have been on newer boats. The layout of this room is different than the other ships that we’ve vacationed on. But, it was a good “different.”

We began our journey from Covington around 7:15 on Monday, September 19th. We stopped for breakfast at McDonald’s somewhere south of Atlanta in the boonies. There was a little girl sitting close to where we were. She was having breakfast with her grandfather. She prayed over her breakfast-it was so cute! She had such a sweet, country accent. Then, someone who knew her grandfather walked over to her table to talk to them. He asked the little girl how old she was. She responded, “Three and three-quarters.” After breakfast, we continued our trip to Mobile, Alabama.

When we made it to the port, we pulled into the parking deck where an attendant took our large bags. The deck was pretty full, so we had to park on the top. When we pulled into a parking space, Lesha said, “Thank God I didn’t give him my small bag-my passport is in it.” To which I replied, “Oh no! My birth certificate is in my big bag!” Lesha stayed with the car while I ran and prayed that I would be able to get to my bag in time to get my birth certificate. Thankfully, Lesha’s suitcase is pretty noticeable. It’s super cute-dark purple with a little swirly flower design. So, it was easy to spot, and my suitcase was right next to hers. So, thankfully, I was able to get my birth certificate. Hallelujah!

So, I went back to tell Lesha the good news and to get the rest of my stuff. As we began walking across the parking lot to check-in with Carnival, Lesha said, “Did you lock the car?” I told her that I had, and even if I hadn’t, there was nothing left in it that anyone would want to steal. Which reminded me-what do thieves like to steal out of cars? Ipods. Oh, crap. Ipods. Yep, they were still in the car. Oops. And, since everyone knows that you can’t lay in the sun for hours without good music, I made another trip back to the car to get the iPods. Finally, we were ready to get on the boat. WooHoo!!!

Getting checked in was pretty ordinary, which was nice. The Carnival employees in Mobile were super friendly, and we were on the boat in a flash. When we got onto the ship, they had lunch ready for us. Lesha always gets a scoop of tuna salad and makes a regular salad with it. I had never tasted tuna salad (I thought it smelled like cat food), but Lesha spoke so highly of it, I decided to give it a try. It was so delicious I ended up having a tuna-salad salad every day for lunch.

The first full day at sea was absolutely wonderful. It was partly cloudy (but mostly sunny) and around 88 degrees. We laid in the sun for a few hours, then walked around to avoid getting burned on the first day. (That has happened before, and it is not fun). Then, we went back to lay in the sun a few more hours. We always opt for the late seating in the formal dining room, so dinner was at 8:15. Our servers were Gusti and Edgardo. Dinner was delicious. I had spinach & artichoke dip, a Greek farmer salad, and prime rib. Oh, and I can’t forget dessert-Bitter and Blanc; it’s white and dark chocolate bread pudding. It was my favorite dessert of the week. We sat at a table with two other girls-Carol and Paige. Carol has the same birthday as Lesha and I…how cool is that?! After dinner we went to the karaoke lounge, and I sang “Before He Cheats.” Carol threatened to post a video of it on You Tube, but I don’t know if she really will. There was a comedy show after karaoke. We went, but it wasn’t very funny. So, we went back to sing another karaoke song. This time I did, “Don’t Know Why” by Norah Jones.

The next day was as gorgeous and even hotter than the first. We were in Cozumel. So, we did a little shopping around the pier. Then, we got a taxi to Downtown and did a little more walking and shopping. When we were done with retail therapy, we went back to the boat to soak up some more rays. But, it was pretty hot since the boat was still (there wasn’t much of a breeze). After we soaked in the Vitamin D, there were Carnival Legends auditions. So, we got showered and got dressed up for that. Carnival Legends is the show that happens on the last night of the cruise. It is similar to American Idol; you sing, and there are three judges. To audition, you have to choose a karaoke song and sing it, and then audience members vote for the five people whom they want to be in the show. I decided to audition for the show. I sang “I Will Survive.” And, I got voted in for the show. Yippee!

Our ship docked in Calica, Mexico the next day. Lesha and I like to take excursions and do things that we otherwise would not have the opportunity to experience. So, the excursion we chose was the Cavern and Underground Snorkel tour. It was not what I expected, but it was a great experience. We went through some tiny places. At times, I just had to not think about the fact that we were in a cave. Our tour guide was telling us about a species of bats that live in the caves (and shining a flashlight where they were flying). He said something about them having red tails. I was too busy trying to forget that there were bats flying around us to pay attention to that part. Near the end of the tour, we snorkeled down a narrow tunnel in the cave where we say ‘brain coral.’ I had a waterproof camera, so I hope to have evidence of this excursion when I get the film developed. It really was a fantastic experience. On a side note, you know how in every group there has to be a loud-mouth? Well, the one in our group was a dumb loud-mouth. She asked our tour guide if fish can see under water. Then, she continually repeated everything he said. Annoying. Aside from the stupid lady, it was a wonderful day!

Lesha and I make it a habit to use the stairs instead of the elevator while we are on the cruise. To get to the deck where we lay out, we had to climb up five flights of stairs. That, in itself, isn’t so bad. However, almost daily when I got up to my lounge chair, I would realize that I’d forgotten something in the room. It was usually my hat. Sometimes I also forgot to bring my Coke Zero. And, once, I forgot my beach towel. It seemed like it was always something. Toward the end of the cruise, we laughingly referred to it as “cruise brain.” It began to rub off on Lesha too-she just had a lesser version than I did.

On the last evening, it was time for the big show-Carnival Legends. I was super excited to be in it, but I was also pretty nervous to be in front of so many people (around 1,000-1,200). But, I did it and had a blast. Note to anyone who is considering doing this in the future: if you can do a good version of “God Bless the USA” people love it! That’s what the guy who won sang, and it was definitely a hit!

Today, we came home. After going to Mom’s, our first stop was for Mexican food at Pacho’s. Yes, we just got home from Mexico. But, can anything beat the Mexican food in Covington? I think not. I’m so glad that Lesha and I started our vacation tradition, and that we’ve kept it going-this was this fifth time that we’ve had our “sister vacation.” I hope that it is something that continues for years and years to come.


Friday, September 9, 2011

Freedom


In Honor of September 11, 2001

How great it feels to be free! I’m so thankful for the brave men and women who have fought and are still fighting to preserve the freedoms that we have grown so accustomed to. Just like our American freedom was not free, our freedom in Christ was paid with a great price of the Spotless Lamb.
Not only has God made a way for us to be free from sin; He wants us to be free from the burdens and chains that we impose on ourselves. It is up to us to choose Salvation. It is also up to us to free ourselves from the things that bind us. Isaiah 52:2 NLT says, “Rise from the dust, O Jerusalem. Sit in a place of honor. Remove the chains of slavery from your neck, O captive daughter of Zion.“ It is up to each of us to remove those chains. God does not want us to be oppressed. John 8:36 NIV says, “So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.“ According to Webster’s online dictionary, free implies “a permanent removal from whatever, binds, confines, entangles, or oppresses.” Once we have chosen Salvation, the Son has set us free indeed-free from sin and oppression. Let’s live in that freedom!